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Other Things => Off Topic => Topic started by: TheKomodo on October 26, 2017, 10:19 AM
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It's been like 3-4 months almost since splitting with my ex, finally happy to start dating again, problem is, i've somehow found myself got dates with 4 girls, i'm talking with them all and they are all amazing in their own way, i'd never ever get involved with more than 1 girl, not that kinda person, but I cannot decide which date to keep and which to cancel, wish I could merge them all into 1 girl...
I'm attracted to all of them.
1 of them is a professional singer, we have a date/studio session next weekend, she seems full of life and looking forward to meeting me.
Another girl is ridiculously witty and makes me laugh like crazy, she wants to meet up.
Another girl, she seems kind and caring and talks about sex/feelings/desires etc the same way I do.
The other girl is just ridiculously adorable and cute princessy but not materialistic.
These are all things I want in 1 girl, wtf, I want to take them all out, see what clicks and sparks, but I feel like a total c**t for chatting with so many girls, really don't want to mess anyone about or whatever, I honestly just want 1 special girl to share my life with...
Anyone got any advice... Or should I just not bother.
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rly hard to decide.
try to have sex with all of them 1st.
then u can make a better choice soon
:D :D :D
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f@#! them all , ideally on the same day , you could even put the idea out for a foursome.
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Saying all that without mentioning boobs proportion for each.. -.-
Honestly, man :) Do not look for advices on TUS or anywhere else for that matter.
Cause you won't find any.
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Saying all that without mentioning boobs proportion for each.. -.-
Sensei can't help!
Honestly, man :) Do not look for advices on TUS or anywhere else for that matter.
Cause you won't find any.
f@#! off with your logic.
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Only foursome you'll ever attend to is you and 3 more dudes, sniper.
mandingos
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Komodo, don't listen to them.
I think the most Important thing in a relationship, is when both can be able to talk openly about their feelings to each other. So I personally would go for number 3 and skip the rest. You don't have to be with someone just because they match a particular interest, in the end partners will love one another regardless.
To share feelings to one another isn't a weakness, and not to have same interest isn't either.
I hope my post helped a little. I am here if you need more.
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Well, maybe it is not the best advice and maybe not the smartest, but yeah, f@#! them all and lets see with which one u will feel the best in bed. In the end all girls are whores - remember it, so lets consider them this way xd
My ex was beautifull and smart, but I felt like I f@#! the robot, no feelings , nothing. Now I have a "female friend" , too early to say girlfriend (not really sure I want be in relationship right now) who is not so much pretty as my ex but she is just evil in bed and she screams so loud that I am not even invite her to my home anymore coz I dont want to piss neighbours.
Anyway even if u pick most sexy girl and u will not feel nothing for her it will suck, so just pick the one you love, gl man
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f@#! it, somebody call cilla.
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Why would you ask to these virgins when you have professional help from me at your disposal? ;D. Whatever Kradie says always do the opposite, he will never ever get laid.
Show us those tinder pics for accurate advise.
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Where is the FoS community when you need them?! Where?!?
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Why would you ask to these virgins when you have professional help from me at your disposal? ;D. Whatever Kradie says always do the opposite, he will never ever get laid.
Show us those tinder pics for accurate advise.
There are no right or wrong answers here. I simply gave my advice, like everyone else here, that's it. It is entirely up to Komodo to decide.
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Why would you ask to these virgins when you have professional help from me at your disposal?
I thought you got dumped by girl wormer.
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Why would you ask to these virgins when you have professional help from me at your disposal?
I thought you got dumped by girl wormer.
Burnnn
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huahuaha
there no right advice, komo is the one who needs rly to see what he rly feels and do what he thinks is right, depends on what he wants who these girls, just f@#!? marry? friends?
well all cars i had, b4 buy i made a test drive so he needs to f@#! all of them for sure, if something went wrong..well atleast he f@#!ed them xD
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Why would you ask to these virgins when you have professional help from me at your disposal?
I thought you got dumped by girl wormer.
Burnnn
Which didn't happen tho.
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rly hard to decide.
try to have sex with all of them 1st.
then u can make a better choice soon
:D :D :D
Damn pig
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3 x 4 = 12 holes available for you... mmm...
optimistic ==> maniac ==> handjob season coming soon :D
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Ah you damn pigs
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just forget them and play some wa :D
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love is psychosis komo it does not exist!
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Why would you ask to these virgins when you have professional help from me at your disposal?
I thought you got dumped by girl wormer.
Burnnn
Which didn't happen tho.
It kinda did. And would do it again for the best of both obviously ;D
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hauhauhuahuah
Daina my loveeee now the way is free to us???
:D :D :D
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she is already busy.. 8)
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I guess what I'm looking for doesn't exist...
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I don't know much about girls since I'm more into marble statues, but imo you should go with #3
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I guess what I'm looking for doesn't exist...
Dave, chin up, you aren't defeated yet, and this thread isn't your verdict.
You can't have everything, settle with a choice that feels right for you.
Because in each choice there is, a window can open up to a new dawn.
Just remember to trust your instinct and be confident :)
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At this stage, there is no harm in dating all 4 if that is what you want to do. If you aren't yet serious or in a relationship, date away and don't get too invested in the one woman. That way you have more of an idea of what works, and you will find it easier to get over any setbacks.
It is probably best to not have a preconceived idea of your ideal woman. You will grow to love someone for who they are and any ideas of what you want go out of the window.
Not sure what else to say at this point.
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Well seems like I've lost #2 because I made a joke she didn't like, we were getting on great and I was telling her about I got my heart fkd by my ex and she said she just got dumped then I said "lucky me 😊" and now she hasn't replied since, so if she can't take a playful joke I guess she isn't really my type after all...
I don't know why you guys act like little boys talking about girls like objects, man the f**k up...
Cheers to those who took it seriously some of your words have helped me think things through better...
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never talk about your ex to a love interest
ever.
just dont do it
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never talk about your ex to a love interest
ever.
just dont do it
X2 lol.
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I don't know why you guys act like little boys talking about girls like objects, man the f**k up...
Putting numbers infront of them and discussing which to pick like they're type of sauce in fast food..
Yeah, manly thing to do :)
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Put on four kinds of sauce on your burger.. gonna have a bad time!
edit: on topic: wait 3 more weeks and you're probably down to just 1. If not, sit back and enjoy the fight!
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Is any of the girl in cfc, good at bng but you know not too good, like to read.. I mean like wall of text! Oh and the most important think that dart should be an esport?
If not they sadly have no chance :(.
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I used numbers so you know which one I was talking about, i'm not going to put their names here... jesus don't be so thick...
There is nothing wrong with talking about an ex, unless you are insecure...
I am not cheating on anyone, I don't want just sex with anyone, I am not leading anyone on just getting to know them, and as soon as there is anything special with anyone nothing would happen with another.
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About the ex point.
Someone who talks about their ex will probably go back and f@#! them - red flag. At the very least it shows feelings for them and is perceived as a lack of investment in your current date.
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never talk about your ex to a love interest
ever.
just dont do it
+1
The thrill of the new relationship always fades away. Pick the one who is worth staying with, when the thrill's gone.
For you komo: (worth reading if you're not familiar with the concept)
https://lifehacker.com/how-the-five-love-languages-can-help-you-win-at-relat-1734348074
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fk it... I've had one of the worst nights at work ever, will reply here when I feel better.
Right now I will say about talking to GF about stuff, for me trust and honesty is everything, especially as you get older, if your partner is telling you how their ex hurt them, you should f**king listen VERY carefully, so you don't make the same mistakes that jackass made.
If you get jealous, or upset, you aren't worthy, period, you aren't right for each other, or you aren't ready for each other, you should be able to completely trust each other, if not, you are just putting up with each other for whatever reason, scared you can't get anyone else, being alone, whatever, you should be able to talk about anything, through thick and thin.
Of course, trust has to be earned, you have to be careful at 1st.
That's why i'm talking to different girls, just trying to find someone honest and straight forward at least...
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OK.... ok ... a serious tone.
In my opinion Dave the poblem you're having is thinking too much on the choice, yes it may well be that one of these girls turns into the one or maybe just a wild fling or perhaps they all turn into nothing, at this crossroads don't overthink,rush or pressure yourself into what might be something worthwhile, like you said the current situation is just chat, getting to know multiple people is fine, be yourself, express yourself the way you would normally and over time you'll find instead of having to pick the right girl they will pick you. Natural selection so to speak, the more you get to know them and they know you the clearer the picture will be and where there was once a choice there will be a history of information and you'll find it infintaly easier to see who you want to give time to.
I'm not anti-feelings but i would question your choice on opinion seeking via the fourums, i appreciate this commuinty is an ancor for you but you also know people will get kicks flaming, you know the people who will have a hint of wisdom to share on this matter and i know they will have the time for you if you need to speak.
In summary, don't put too much presure on yourself, things happen when they need to happen, people come and go and what now looks like a group of desireable women may in 6 months be a joke to the love of your life you met by chance in a coffe shop. you can't force or predict a relationship, it just happens on it's own.
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you can't force or predict a relationship, it just happens on it's own.
Close the thread.
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Well you are spot on there mate, thinking too much...
Yeah, I didn't ask for advice just here, but it doesn't hurt to have a few extra opinions, I knew exactly the kind of comments that would come by posting, some of them were actually quite funny though, some were just outright disrespectful though.
One of my favourite quotes of all time actually goes something like:
"It doesn't matter who you are or what you do, there will always be haters, so just be true to yourself, do what you love and have fun doing it, eventually the right people will come to you"
^^ That was actually Skrillex.
What's funny though is the one I like the most, works in a coffee shop :D I'm pulling out all the stops to impress this girl, even if it doesn't work out, it's gonna be so much fun!
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lol komo jokes apart, just keep being yourself and see by the time, which one finds you more atractive and vice-versa, theres no rules for this, the time helps a lot.
gl ae porra!
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Ryan, dunno why everything is about sex...
I still have feelings for my ex, but definitely not sexual anymore, and I definitely don't want her back.
Anyone who was in love will always have memories or feelings for that person, doesn't necessary mean they want to f**k them.
We all think about our past now and again, positive and negative, and try to make sense of things that went wrong maybe.
Personally I think if that's what a person thinks then that's just their opinion, and their own experience, people are different.
In my mind, if we can't talk about absolutely anything then there's the door... Life is too short to get jealous or insecure about yourself, the reason they are an ex is because it didn't work out. If you can't keep them interested anyway over somebody they aren't even with anymore, well then... Move on and try to break up friendly.
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You were on about starting dating.
If someone was talking about their ex on a first date, I'm leaving.
Eventually you may discuss it but on a date?
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Hey it's not my fault if they ask why I live in such a big house myself, and the truth is "Cuz my ex left"...
Then they ask "Why did she leave"...
But see, that's the problem Ryan, why is it such a problem to talk about that? Maybe the girl really likes you and just opening up because she's scared to get hurt again, personally I find it a bit judgemental and selfish, but each to their own, in your own way you are protecting yourself from what I assume is a previous experience either you went through or you saw it and don't like it and don't want it to happen to you.
Personally, I always hear someone out, even if I don't like it.
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Then again, I can tell the difference between "I still like my ex" and "I don't like what my ex done to me".
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this is why I can't feel love