fk it... I've had one of the worst nights at work ever, will reply here when I feel better.
Right now I will say about talking to GF about stuff, for me trust and honesty is everything, especially as you get older, if your partner is telling you how their ex hurt them, you should f**king listen VERY carefully, so you don't make the same mistakes that jackass made.
If you get jealous, or upset, you aren't worthy, period, you aren't right for each other, or you aren't ready for each other, you should be able to completely trust each other, if not, you are just putting up with each other for whatever reason, scared you can't get anyone else, being alone, whatever, you should be able to talk about anything, through thick and thin.
Of course, trust has to be earned, you have to be careful at 1st.
That's why i'm talking to different girls, just trying to find someone honest and straight forward at least...