Hey guys,
My life has been totally turned upside down this afternoon. I found out that my girlfriend of 3 years and the mother of my precious baby girl is a cheating whore and has been having an affair.
3 years of my life has been dedicated to this family. Tonight that family is no longer.
I've left her and am living with my parents. Playing worms won't be an option for a while.
When I get my own place and/or my life is back on track I will surely return. I anticipate life being f@#!ing chaotic for a while so not sure how soon that will be.
With great sadness I say goodbye and see you soon friends.
Cueshark :<
and so close to the Showcase release! 8(
Seriously though, bl man... shit happens I dont know what I can say. I know you'll get through it though dont worry, tough times but it could always be worse.
maan ...
:'/
Quote from: Guaton on July 06, 2011, 10:47 PM
maan ...
:'/
yep...Man, I dont know you much but all I'll say is chin high and wish you find all the courage in the world. thats all.
Thanks guys.
It doesn't matter how much support I get from friends and most of all my family; support from the worms community is also really important to me.
It hurts so bad. It hasn't really sunk in yet.
Quote from: Cueshark on July 06, 2011, 10:54 PM
Thanks guys.
It doesn't matter how much support I get from friends and most of all my family; support from the worms community is also really important to me.
It hurts so bad. It hasn't really sunk in yet.
no stereotypical advice from me: spend sometime with friends and process it dude, let it out.
Quote from: Cueshark on July 06, 2011, 10:35 PM
Hey guys,
My life has been totally turned upside down this afternoon. I found out that my girlfriend of 3 years and the mother of my precious baby girl is a cheating whore and has been having an affair.
3 years of my life has been dedicated to this family. Tonight that family is no longer.
I've left her and am living with my parents. Playing worms won't be an option for a while.
When I get my own place and/or my life is back on track I will surely return. I anticipate life being f@#!ing chaotic for a while so not sure how soon that will be.
With great sadness I say goodbye and see you soon friends.
Cueshark :<
omg dude...
I wish you gl dude... try to dont leave your baby :/ My father left me and it is not a good feeling. Atleast it shows you that you must be more careful next time...
And better times will come, we hope :(
This is less sarcastic than you think: go get wasted tonight. You can piece your life together in the morning.
Try to get some distraction dude.. even if it's outta worms ???
Or battlefield.. shooting nazi's, yeah that helps :)
Take care cue, and do look after your interests and (remaining) loved ones.
Very sad to hear :(
No goodbyes Cueman, no goodbyes mate.. :(
U might get inactive in playing, but you'll always stay a part of Wormy community..
We're friends here, U must come back when things settle down..
I can only guess how heavy and mental (as U say) is life for U now, and there's no words that could make it better I guess..
I really feel bad 'cause that shit happened to U.. :(
Stay strong mate, let some time to pass and get the strength from that anger and disappointment if U can.. Things that don't kill U only makes U stronger, U just need to keep it up and try not to fall.. and I know U can do it cause U're special.
Take care mate..
We all walk the long road.
.
Take care, dude, I wish it works out as best as it can.
:<
aw cue man, she didn't deserved you ! like ramone said, you are a very nice and special person and we all like you.
keep your head up, think about it and processing it... no matter how long it will take (be strong!!!).
it will be not easy, but time will heal the wounds. take deep breaths, if you are upset because of this and clear your mind of bad thoughts.
i don't know the reasons... but i am very sure, you haven't deserved it cue ! care for your daughter...
sure... she is the mother of your child, but at least you can say to your daughter, when she grown up to a young lady...
you always did the right things, what your ex-girlfriend can not say of herself !
life sucks sometimes very bad, but you must get over it... as fast as you can !
i'm wishing you all the best and good luck. make your own peace with that and better times will come for sure !
Holy shit dude, I'm so sorry. It can be impossible to tell if someone's really a good person until they do something heinous... I just hope that she feels like shit for doing that to an upstanding guy like yourself. That's just sickening to me, not just choosing to cheat, but also implicitly choosing to break up a newly-formed family, ugh.
I wish you the best, just get her out of your thoughts as best you can, and find some things to do that'll make you happy.
aff sad news... Take care cueshark.
Quote from: Cueshark on July 06, 2011, 10:35 PM
Cueshark :<
:<
Quote from: Cueshark on July 06, 2011, 10:54 PM
Thanks guys.
It doesn't matter how much support I get from friends and most of all my family; support from the worms community is also really important to me.
It hurts so bad. It hasn't really sunk in yet.
u always will have support of ur friends of worms community cue..
GL in ur life dude.. o/
I may not be a pro :<
But I can still be a bro :>
your bros are here, don't forget.
and be the best father you can to that baby girl. don't let her take that from you.
Cue I wanna talk to you in private about this, I won't say why but please, we need to talk man.
Cue I'm so sorry to hear this. That's less cheating on you, but cheating on your daughter's future.
Hope it's a bullet you're dodging or you work it out for the best. :)
I don't really know what I should say, cause I can't even imagine how you must feel.
I guess things will get better if you stay as you are. You're a great guy ;<
this did never fit better:
:<
i wish you all the best in whatever your plans may be now.
I'd like to comment it but... no words. Take care dude!
Poor little girl, I wish we could have spent more time talking about her.
Anyway, it's sad but life is not over.
Go on Cue. ;)
the same problem happended to one of my friend last month... :(
I hope you go through this difficult period in the best possible way
You guys all rock.
It's been a hard day but reading these messages made things easier.
Thanks!!!
P.S - I won't be investing time on showcase any more. But I am gonna render it 95% finished (asap)
No woman is gonna stand in the way of a worms tournie!
I think I know how much it hurts, Cue. Please, take care and stay strong, my friend.
I've said all I needed to say in my PM to you, sir.
Also, new sig.
Focus on what you still have - your mates, parents, Jessica... I'm feeling with you man. :<
I'm deeply shocked, mate but I believe you will go through this and harden yourself! Our community will totally miss you for your contribution in so many things, yet, we do understand and we're going to support you even though it's via internet. I wish Jess will be assigned to her only and true parent, which is you, John! Fight till the end, because I know how hard for fathers is to keep theirs babies with them even if the problem is the mother. Take care and see you soon, I'll miss our rr fights.
Quote from: DarkOne on July 07, 2011, 05:35 PM
I've said all I needed to say in my PM to you, sir.
Also, new sig.
Best sig ever!
Quote from: Dulek on July 07, 2011, 05:40 PM
I'm deeply shocked, mate but I believe you will go through this and harden yourself! Our community will totally miss you for your contribution in so many things, yet, we do understand and we're going to support you even though it's via internet. I wish Jess will be assigned to her only and true parent, which is you, John! Fight till the end, because I know how hard for fathers is to keep theirs babies with them even if the problem is the mother. Take care and see you soon, I'll miss our rr fights.
No fight luckily Dulek. Your words mean no less because of this. Ty.
I've got this situation sorted and plus, being a stud single dad with a ridiculously cute kid is one major bird puller.
:<
Quote from: Cueshark on July 07, 2011, 10:21 PM
Quote from: Dulek on July 07, 2011, 05:40 PM
I'm deeply shocked, mate but I believe you will go through this and harden yourself! Our community will totally miss you for your contribution in so many things, yet, we do understand and we're going to support you even though it's via internet. I wish Jess will be assigned to her only and true parent, which is you, John! Fight till the end, because I know how hard for fathers is to keep theirs babies with them even if the problem is the mother. Take care and see you soon, I'll miss our rr fights.
No fight luckily Dulek. Your words mean no less because of this. Ty.
I've got this situation sorted and plus, being a stud single dad with a ridiculously cute kid is one major bird puller.
:<
well put mate, best of luck to you
Quote from: Cueshark on July 07, 2011, 10:21 PM
Quote from: Dulek on July 07, 2011, 05:40 PM
I'm deeply shocked, mate but I believe you will go through this and harden yourself! Our community will totally miss you for your contribution in so many things, yet, we do understand and we're going to support you even though it's via internet. I wish Jess will be assigned to her only and true parent, which is you, John! Fight till the end, because I know how hard for fathers is to keep theirs babies with them even if the problem is the mother. Take care and see you soon, I'll miss our rr fights.
No fight luckily Dulek. Your words mean no less because of this. Ty.
I've got this situation sorted and plus, being a stud single dad with a ridiculously cute kid is one major bird puller.
:<
good to hear your daughter is with ya
That's sad to hear Cue, I hope things will work out nicely for you and your daughter and hope you stay around here. No need to play, just write a message once in a while in the forums!
I didnt say goodbye because Im sure we'll be seeing Cue again, it'll take more than this to stop this wormer!
Good to see you being positive about it, thats the best way to be. We all face dark paths at some point in our lives but things will balance out eventually and im sure you'll end up being happier because of this. Stay strong mate, we'll all be here waiting for your return!
Wow mate, just keep your head at the right place...
See this as a new start.. keep the positive in your life, it's a bad moment but you'll get through...
So one day you can teach your daughter how to rr :]
Oh my... bad luck man... :(
Be strong and good luck!
Bakana Cue-san, if you like your daughter, then getting her near you should be enough to make you happy !
No tame ni hisshi de tatakau !
Quote from: Spaazi on July 08, 2011, 02:29 PMSo one day you can teach your daughter how to rr :]
Word ! :D
dude, its gonna be rough... i have had bad break ups too.. will be hard sleeping without her, and u gonna have nightmares and shit, its you will just be a miserable prick... i know, cuz i been there lol..
but im telling you, once you get your head out of your ass, and move on.. you will find a girl that knows how to treat you, and you will wonder what in the hell you were ever with that wrothless bitch for anyway! :D
im confident you will find a girl that is everything that little whore could not be!! but until then, you have your baby girl! and that can not be replaced.. good luck <3
omg dude...
I wish you gl dude... try to dont leave your baby :/ My father left me and it is not a good feeling.
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yeah,whatever you do,never EVER leave your child...thats the worst thing that can happen to child :| take care man
Thanks man.
My child is extremely safe with me and always will be. There are some serious concerns regarding her mother which is all I can say.
So Cueshark I and II are rocking together!
Just no rope racing for the time being as no internet on my normal pc. I think the keys would probably wake up Baby Cueshark anyway :D
I kinda made this thread in a self-pitying moment but I'm glad I did and I can't stress enough how f@#!ing awesome you guys all are!
Cue :<
Hey cue!
Just saw this thread and wanted 2 throw in my 2 cents. Allthough we never really played much vs eachother and shit u always were a character i knew and saw meant alot 2 this community, and as the wormer-family we are we all wish u the best (as all these amazing posts show)! :)
On topic; as being a relatively old dude with alot of experience with the opposite sex I can only say; the joke is on her man! And just remember; no matter how f@#!ing down u may feel at times, she will now (or eventually) feel sooo much worse. SHe is the one that made a fool out of herself, she is the one that proven 2 be the lesser person, and that my friend, is gonna be f@#!ing hard 2 live with. BUT SHE DESERVES it, as do every1 in the same situation as her.
Keep ur chin up, walk with ur head held high, u have nothing 2 be ashamed over what so ever. And after a "sad NO", theres always a better YES along the way! :) But im sure that will work out, for now just focus on the nr 1 in ur life, which always will be ur baby girl! :)
Peace bro!
Goodbye Cue, get yourself sorted mate. The cute baby will pull some beautiful ladies! :)
The worms community really is amazing sometimes.
I bet u're a terrific dad, focus on that now, gl on everything man, hope to see u back someday with a new girl that diserves u, peace man weed helps on this cases, srsly :).