Your mate is f@#!ing your ex of over a month, you f@#! him up right? This is my opinion and what I'm gonna do. Who agrees?
Ah shit dude, from what you told me i'd say it was some sort of revenge, but considering its your "mate" that makes it below the belt, same thing happened to me years ago, but the day I found out who it was was the same day he left town for good, i've never seen him again since, I broke into the guys house to find it empty and abandoned, prick...
Put it this way, if he hadn't moved out of town that day, i'd probably be in jail.
Of course I agree you should f@#! him up, jus be careful how you do it, and remember, emotional pain is ALOT stronger and powerful than physical pain.
One time guy was hassling my cousin, like bugging her constant being really sleazy and touching her when she didn't want, so me and my family spent the next month making false complaints to that guys manager at his work, he ended up losing his job, his house cuz he couldn't afford to pay the bills.
But thats me lol.
if it is ur ex gf, then just dont do nothing, just say f@#! off to her and to him lol. cos a real mate wont do that.
iam kinda promiscuos but we need some respect lol
Personally, I don't care who my ex hooks up with, it could be my dad, I wouldn't give a f@#!...
For me, it's the principal of the matter, only matters because who it was, and when they know how much you care about them, it is the upmost sign of betrayal and disrespect.
Quote from: Ray on December 21, 2010, 10:51 AM
Personally, I don't care who my ex hooks up with, it could be my dad, I wouldn't give a f@#!...
If I wasn't still into her then I would be in the same mindset as you, but I want her back so it's a big deal to me.
Quote from: Komo on December 21, 2010, 10:38 AM
Ah shit dude, from what you told me i'd say it was some sort of revenge, but considering its your "mate" that makes it below the belt, same thing happened to me years ago, but the day I found out who it was was the same day he left town for good, i've never seen him again since, I broke into the guys house to find it empty and abandoned, prick...
Put it this way, if he hadn't moved out of town that day, i'd probably be in jail.
Of course I agree you should f@#! him up, jus be careful how you do it, and remember, emotional pain is ALOT stronger and powerful than physical pain.
One time guy was hassling my cousin, like bugging her constant being really sleazy and touching her when she didn't want, so me and my family spent the next month making false complaints to that guys manager at his work, he ended up losing his job, his house cuz he couldn't afford to pay the bills.
But thats me lol.
We think kinda the same, I think. The thing is, he said that he would try get us back together, and being a mate, I believed him. And now they're pretty much together. I want to cave his face in.
Kinda a long story with what's happened in the past couple months between me and her. But, when I found out they were having sex, 2 nights out of 5 I had dreams of smacking this guy out. I think it should happen. Been going back to MMA for this reason ;/ dunno what to think.
Your "mate" is a selfish f@#!, and I think he is only after your "ex" for sex, nothing more, he used you and your exs "troubles" to his advantage to get to her.
I hate people like this, I honestly think you should do something, but like I said, be careful, the guy don't deserve to die or anything, but he definately needs to learn a lesson.
Honestly, I know you won't believe it right now but, you WILL move on and someday you won't even remember this girl.
I was with my gf for 3 years, I thought she was the love of my life, and i'd be with her till I die, and she got pregnant to my "best mate", not just sex, not just a fling, she got pregnant...
He got dealt with though, eventually.
Be strong man, and don't give her an inch.
lol.. one thing u have to know... ALL women are Bitchies.. ALL .. ur ex gf, ur new gf, my gf, my mom, the nino's mom, etc.. simply all.. .. but mattes, dudes, friends.. i believe in my friends.. =P.. ill be v sad if i knew something like that.
but have a search made by " Talking Sex With Sue " lool, n1 already saw ? haha that says "66% of friends have dreams with sex with the womam of his friend! =P " .. then this life sux ..lol dont trust in ur shadow >D
well o/
I love my mum, i'd die for her.
isnt the point.
the point is.. we trust and believe in everybody, mom, gf, friends.. but they trust in tus ? =P
she die for u ? >D
She would die for me, I know this 100%.
Same with my Brother, and my Dad.
n1 :)
gL
Dude... Go get a bitch thats hotter then her... Bring the hot girl around for a bit then ur xgf will see u get hot bitches and get jealous and what u back... U take her back jus long enough to f@#! her, n leave her breakin her heart, and ur friends lol... Thats what id do.. f@#! that bich in her ass man.. Right up the poop shoot!
Life's tough sometimes. :/
Take care. :)
What avi says is also a solid plan :)
Actually... I been thinking about it... Maybe u should start a nice rumor that she has herpes hahaha... That would be sweet
or take a shit in her living room
i would be much more harsh, i would call her saying i discovered i got AIDS, so she might have too.
uashauhaushusah..
and u got AIDS f@#!ing her best friend ;)
Ah. I'm not pissed at her for this because as soon as we broke up my 'mate' jumped in when she was vulnerable. She was sad and depressed and shit and he took advantage of that. I don't know
What are you guys' definition of a break?
Revenge it's sweet man, don't make anything stupid tho like fighting or w/e just think the way to f@#! him up rly hard so he recall that moment for his whole life, try to bang his mom for example.
is this FoS? :D
Quote from: Devilage on December 21, 2010, 08:30 PM
Revenge it's sweet man,...
>D, really is.. w8 for the right moment
Quote from: Devilage on December 21, 2010, 08:30 PM
...don't make anything stupid tho like fighting or w/e...
if will fight, fight to kill, or juz "don't make anything stupid"
Quote from: Devilage on December 21, 2010, 08:30 PM
...just think the way to f@#! him up rly hard so he recall that moment for his whole life...
Quote from: Devilage on December 21, 2010, 08:30 PM
..., try to bang his mom for example.
HAHAHAHA
Very nice mind Devilage, i agree with everything ^^
Fighting is stupid. The only thing you will get out of fighting is sore knuckles. What are the laws like in your country about fighting?
dilli, most commonly when a woman says she needs a break, this means she wants to try and be with another guy, and see if she will miss you enough to be with you again, although they never admit this, or they will say something else, more or less every guy I know, that had a relationship that ended this way and the girl said "We need a break" this is exactly what happened, seriously.
some funny advice in this thread haha
i reckon what komo said about 'a break' is true, except for the missing part, more like "im gonna try it on with another bloke, and it if it doesnt work, at least ill have you to fall back on" instead of seeing if she misses you (cause she dont need another bloke for that), which is a proper bitch move if you ask me, but whatever
also based on the fact that you cheated on her and she found out, i'd just say she's probably trying to hurt you (emotionally) like you hurt her. basically you gotta remember revenge goes both ways ya know and ya gotta give her some credit im sure she knows exactly what she's doing
I've been drunk pretty much every time I've posted on this thread.
But, tonight I was drinking with some guys and they made me see that there are plenty of other fannies out there. I think I just need to break the seal and sleep with a chick and then I will be over her. Maybe it's just the fact that I'm not rooting at all at the moment. Heart-breaking to say the least.
Not to say I wouldn't get back with my ex if she wanted to, she's a f@#!ing glamour.
My mate also said that Edinburgh is the place to go in Scotland; he reckons there's a pub every ten metres, so if you get kicked out of one you pretty much get kicked into another haha
Anyway, f@#! relationships, I just need some slit.
Quote from: dilligaf on December 22, 2010, 09:45 AM
My mate also said that Edinburgh is the place to go in Scotland; he reckons there's a pub every ten metres, so if you get kicked out of one you pretty much get kicked into another haha
True xDxD
Komo and Madog were absolutely correct about the meaning of a break.
I definitely recommend getting as much pussy as you can. Will make you feel WAY better.
mate the pub thing is pretty much true of the entire uk :P
Quote from: madog on December 22, 2010, 10:25 AM
mate the pub thing is pretty much true of the entire uk :P
Heh, he said that about Edinburgh and that somewhere else (can't remember where) it was like 100 metres between each bar so Edinburgh sounds like the place to be :P
Who needs a girl when you got BnG
Quote from: dilligaf on December 21, 2010, 08:20 PM
Ah. I'm not pissed at her for this because as soon as we broke up my 'mate' jumped in when she was vulnerable. She was sad and depressed and shit and he took advantage of that. I don't know
What are you guys' definition of a break?
That's naive, don't buy that 'sad, vulnerable, taking advantage' shit. It takes two to consent to and to actually f@#!. She's a bitch, period. I've been there, done that, today I'm still OK with the guy she wanted to be with (my mate). I'm in a happy relationship today (like 7 or 8 years after) and she's still going out with losers.
Move on, do what Johnny said. GL, you're still only 19 :)
In my group of friends this scenario would be unthinkable and totally uncalled for. Being mates have some "unwritten rules". 1 of them is "never f@#! around with ur friends ex!" . At least not shortly after they broke up. If some time passed and things calmed down, then maybe, but then u talk with ur mate about the matter first, explain the situation.
IF this shit happened 2 me i would tell my friend 2 f@#! off, along with my ex in a "u deserve eachother" tone, then move on. When ppl asked me what the deal was between me and this "friend" i would simply explain the situation. ANy guy would totally agree with u, and think the dude was a prick.
Of course, getting drunk and having some rebounds is a normal thing 2 do after such a thing!:D but hey! ur a hurt hurt man! Then u have sometthing 2 blame when u wave ur dick around town! :D
Quote from: Uber on December 22, 2010, 10:52 AM
In my group of friends this scenario would be unthinkable and totally uncalled for. Being mates have some "unwritten rules". 1 of them is "never f@#! around with ur friends ex!" . At least not shortly after they broke up. If some time passed and things calmed down, then maybe, but then u talk with ur mate about the matter first, explain the situation.
IF this shit happened 2 me i would tell my friend 2 f@#! off, along with my ex in a "u deserve eachother" tone, then move on. When ppl asked me what the deal was between me and this "friend" i would simply explain the situation. ANy guy would totally agree with u, and think the dude was a prick.
Of course, getting drunk and having some rebounds is a normal thing 2 do after such a thing!:D but hey! ur a hurt hurt man! Then u have sometthing 2 blame when u wave ur dick around town! :D
I'm really sorry mate.
??? :p
omfg i killed him...
GJ.
You actually killed him, or just battered him senseless?
Nah, lol just had a little tussle but then mates broke it up.
I don't know what the laws are about fighting, whoever asked.
kick him inthe balls.
Quote from: dilligaf on December 24, 2010, 08:06 PM
Nah, lol just had a little tussle but then mates broke it up.
I don't know what the laws are about fighting, whoever asked.
I'm sure the laws on fighting arn't as strong as they are here in Canada. My brother sent two kids to the hospital and the police phoned bugging for a couple months wanting to charge.
Fighting isn't worth going to jail lol
It depends why you are fighting I guess, fighting in self-defence with evidence you were defending yourself, you will always walk free without charge, a little drunken tussle with someone might get you a night in the cells, but depends how far it goes, if you put someone in hospital, you will get taken to court if the victim wishes.
It all depends on the circumstances.
Yeah, I've answered my own question; violence isn't the answer. A fight ain't worth imprisonment.
awwww come on dili!! please come to jail with me!! haha
oh, and a kid i have known for a long time ago (was not friends with, just knew him) died a couple months back, he was at some night club, and the bouncer kicked him out...he swung at the bouncer, and the bouncer layed him out one shot....
killed him...
now the boucer is f@#!ed, they r saying he used excessive force, and shit... hes gettin charged with murder over one punch.. so u see, a fight could change ur life forever....
but dili... kicking him in the balls is not weak! hahaa... as long as u do it last... after u kick his ass....
matter fact my bestfriend was just in jail for a month, and another friend of ours f@#!ed his gf while he was in jail... he got out found out about it, beat the shit out of him... took his watch, hat, all his money, drugs, and anything else he wanted... took his pants (just to be an asshole, sending him home in boxers) cut his head open with his knife, then stomped on his balls while he was down on the ground......
my friend is a bit crazy... but when he told me he did that.. i was pretty proud of him :D the other kid has left town now, no1 has seen him for over 2 weeks, they think my friend murder him lol.. but thats not the case... the other guy just scared.. but its a funny story... maybe it will inspire u dili
dilli, put it this way, it's your choice whatever you do, whether you fight or not, you are still a man, but, if you don't act, or do anything to him, he will never learn a lesson, would you honestly be happy to sit back and know you let him away with it? And him walking around thinking he got one over you?
LOL avi, jail date. Are you American?
I know, Komo, it's f@#!ed up. She's with him now but tells me that we could get back together next year. She's a silly girl. I dunno what to do. I say go with the flow, if I fight him then that happens. If I don't then nothing happens. I still win in the end. She will want me back next year I'm sure so f@#! him. They can be together for now. I can be with other chicks and then we can meet up again if we do. If we don't then f@#! it. Just drink up! Woooo it's christmas!
No offence mate, but i'd never take her back, f@#! waiting a year for that.
Not a year, about 1 or 2 months. She's a real nice girl, honestly.
man if u really want her back, just tell her it is now or never, if she agree ok, then u back to her and try it again, if no, just say f@#! off, and forget even her name, life still man, go use ur dick in another dark and wet place and ull be ok very soon. believe me, iam Freud.
Dude forget her!!!! Move on! You make me feel sad.
lol its true.. r u a depressed little child :p
Haha, but the thing is, it's summer now and we have this big music festival here that goes for 5 days called Rhythm and Vines and so there's gonna be a a few sexy chicks around so I can fool around for now and then see what her decision is next year. Kinda win-win if you ask me. I get to fool around now during summer and then can have her back next year. And no I'm not depressed lol :P
So, I hit him and it felt so f@#!ing good. Seeing him drop to the ground was just so good. My ex was with him at the time and I walked up and threw my fist through his face. She texted me after and said there's no chance of us getting back together, but after hitting him, I actually feel no need for her anymore. My new year's kiss was a punch to the face of a betraying c@#! and it was good. Happy 2011 everyone! Time to train hard!
I don't want it to look like I support punching people in the face, but yay, you got over her! ;D
Quote from: Rok on December 31, 2010, 02:24 PM
I don't want it to look like I support punching people in the face, but yay, you got over her! ;D
You make it sound like it's a bad thing! ;p
you know i refrained from posting here until now.
in short you did the right thing.
i was in a simiair position about 2 years ago, got with a girl, she shagged my best m8 i battered him. turned out he robbed her once i left the home, she called me wanting me back, me like a fool took her back with the mindset that id use her for a xmas and birthday present (this was in november and my b/day is in feb) and told all my close friends about this. all was going well until my 21st birthday, when bam what do i get for my birthday? a positive pregnancy test.
Now sure, i dont regret gracie one bit, but i regret who i had her with. so theres both sides of the coin flipped.
BTW before any1 says anything, i didnt/dont use condoms cos im allergic to latex so fu xD
lmfao @ allergic.
dude i heard in UK there are 6 cm condom so no excuse, it was ur fault.
and also she could take pill xD
Quote from: CJ on December 31, 2010, 05:23 PM
BTW before any1 says anything, i didnt/dont use condoms cos im allergic to latex so fu xD
(http://www.nz-online-pharmacy.com/product_images/h/416/Durex-Deluxe-Latex-Free-Condoms__34752_zoom.jpg)
Quote from: nino on December 31, 2010, 05:27 PM
lmfao @ allergic.
dude i heard in UK there are 6 cm condom so no excuse, it was ur fault.
and also she could take pill xD
I think thats what hurt the most as wen we 1st got together in June 08, she was on the pill, so when we got back together in November 08, i kinda auto assumed she still was on it, how wrong i was eh?
f@#! it, everything happens for a reason, and i wouldn't change my daughter for anything, not even Cheryl Cole.
nothing wrong mate, it is nice.
me per exemple, i dont want a kid nowadays, but well if my gf get pregnant everything will be cool and nino`s kid will be here in few years owning u guys in elite.
Did u spit the guy? man u should've spit the mofo that makes u feel so motherf@#!ing nice spit on him than spit on the girls feet and told her " Have fun with this trash c@#! " omfg !
nah man spitting is repulsive
And ur best friend f@#!ing the girl ur invole with isn't? lol
yeah ofcourse but theres way and means to dealing with the situation without resorting to spitting ;)