You all miss understand. I am a respectful and kind gamer.
When someone enters my game they are questiond about their skill level. When someone says they are pro or "the best" or whatever I hold them too it. And when it becomes clear they lied I will be very rude, stop trying and or quit. It a waste of time for me to play a game that is no contest. I'll learn nothing and won't enjoy it.
  On the rare occasion someone says they are good and actually are I can be very present and have made manny friends this way.
  If by contrast someone is honest from the start and tell me there average or even noob. I won't boot, I'll take a handicap, play teach and be respectful.

  The issue here is one of honesty nothing more.