Okay so:
Finally found a decent emulator for windows xp on my macbook that doesn't have crazy lag spikes. The previous emulator I was running I used wormnat2 at was able to host games. When I transferred everything over to the new emulator, people can no longer join my games. My game hosts show up in red and people can not join them. Also, it shows up as me having an Argentinian flag, but only when I host, regular flag in AG is USA. Was a clean install of WA, then I put in required .dll files, enabled workmen, and then replaced user directory with my previous one from my other virtual system.
If anyone has any insight that would be fantastic, thanks, I've always been able to troubleshoot my worms issues, but this one I'm at a loss.