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« on: October 27, 2017, 10:20 AM »
OK.... ok ... a serious tone.
In my opinion Dave the poblem you're having is thinking too much on the choice, yes it may well be that one of these girls turns into the one or maybe just a wild fling or perhaps they all turn into nothing, at this crossroads don't overthink,rush or pressure yourself into what might be something worthwhile, like you said the current situation is just chat, getting to know multiple people is fine, be yourself, express yourself the way you would normally and over time you'll find instead of having to pick the right girl they will pick you. Natural selection so to speak, the more you get to know them and they know you the clearer the picture will be and where there was once a choice there will be a history of information and you'll find it infintaly easier to see who you want to give time to.
I'm not anti-feelings but i would question your choice on opinion seeking via the fourums, i appreciate this commuinty is an ancor for you but you also know people will get kicks flaming, you know the people who will have a hint of wisdom to share on this matter and i know they will have the time for you if you need to speak.
In summary, don't put too much presure on yourself, things happen when they need to happen, people come and go and what now looks like a group of desireable women may in 6 months be a joke to the love of your life you met by chance in a coffe shop. you can't force or predict a relationship, it just happens on it's own.