You're not that bad in self recognition, since you just did it (in the parenthesis + many times in the thread).
You just told your weakness (it's not to me, since you realised it), so you just lied to you. :p
I'll ask you something cause I really can't get it:
- Where did I use a offensive way to tell you there was some things wrong ?
- Why are you defensive when someone tell you you might be wrong ? Just ask him why he thinks this way, and you won't need to be defensive.
As you said, it's pretty hard to see what's wrong with you, so if someone tell you, it might be a real thing you can't notice, so it's just
help.
- Why is it so difficult to detect if your behaviour is bad or wrong ? I've never had those problems.
Maybe cause everytime I do something, I wonder if it'll hurt someone. And the few time I denie, it's just cause it's easier than agreeding on the truth (but I kinda stopped doing this, since it's bad for your own health).
QuoteWhich means you have to do certains things exactly opposite to what was normal to you and what has worked for you.
Not hurting anybody in your behaviour is the opposite of what you currently do ?

You might be true and I might be wrong, but I can't just believe you, point it to me. It's a request I do to you.
But I really think most of the time you though that, it's cause you missunderstood me.
Cause all I want is the good for everybody...
PS: That was a great argumentation. Not saying you're right or wrong, but this argumentation is a real one.
So no, this is not and will never be bullshits to me, since you do it a nice way.