Professor, and mostly Kaleu, look at it this way:
You say I was being "gay", ok, fine, I accept you are entitled to your opinion and realise that me refusing to play without Green looks a bit childish to some people.
Ok, so far, nothing serious... But, you said, "I done it cuz I know you will quit, it was joke" or something similar.
Ok so, if you were "angry" or "annoyed" at waiting for me, and you knew I would quit when you done the auto-light thing, why didn't you just kick me from your host instead? Don't you realise your mistake? By using this auto-light thing, regardless of why you done it, or how innocent you "normally" are, because you done it even just this 1 time, now everyone knows you are capable of it, 1 time is once too many, this type of thing is unforgivable, the paranoia has already sunk in, everytime someone attempts to play you, they won't be able to stop themselves but think you are capable of cheating, no one will ever fully trust you again, it's too late...