Cue, why can't you just understand that to ME these things are different?
Avi's going to jail, he won't say why so I can't really have an opinion on it, but i've known him for a long time and I like him, no matter what he done to get jail, it must have been something, no matter what it is, I don't have any sympathy for him for his current situation, although I have sympathy for other things that have happened to him and I still have a deal of respect for him.
I've done some bad things in my life, but nothing worthy of death in my opinion, I feel i've generally done alot more good and helped alot more people than i've done bad, I still hate myself for the bad things i've done, but I am proud of myself for the good things i've done, if I killed someone, I would accept the consequences, even if that meant death, and I really mean that, I wouldn't think I deserve rehabilitation or "restorative justice".
Of course I am trying to protect my position, by trying to make you understand my opinions, and i'll debate until you do, even if you don't agree with them, but as long as you understand where i'm coming from.
Having sympathy for someone's innocent life, and having NO sympathy for their guilty life, are 2 different things in my eyes, I would still look down on "her" for stealing, just like I looked down on myself for things i've done.
You said this: "Now you are redefining your position, separating the person and the crime"
And I can only say this, I never put the 2 together in the 1st place did I.