Ray, imo, whats happening here is a case of "we're getting older". By that I dont mean grumpy (not only grumpy at least

) but also more mature and intolerant of trolling behaviour.
The reason you see it "getting worse" is because when you started worms and even entered TUS with everyone, you were still years younger than now, and when talking about someone entering their 20's, every year brings huge differences and changes.
Drama is the only means a teenager has in order to solve issues, in the same way that a baby cries, since they have not yet learned other ways of dealing with things (ofc there are those who are simply
that stupid but those are mostly exceptions

.
Bottomline, ppl grow up and things change, you'll become more intolerant of this behaviour but you can learn to overlook it knowing that most of the ppl who cause mess now will later grow out of bad habbits.
Then again, I -or anyone for that matter- cannot make you tolerant/understanding, and you dont have to be either, but I think having the things I mentioned in mind helps.