Then think of how the ugly women must feel when you turn them down? Given the fact that their already low on self-esteem. Your post reminds me of girls in middle school. "Look at my painting and how ugly it is? uff" And the other girls in the class respond "naaaw, your painting is really beautiful!". You look good, obviously, no need to get a confirmation from a bunch of guys in their early 20's/30's? That being said, you could try out a different haircut. Now I know the 'short-on-the-sides-long-on-the-top' is the most popular haircut in every corner of the world today, but the haircut simply doesn't suit all. Because of the shape of ones head. I think you would look much better with longer hair.. Your head looks abit like an avocado